Hey LJ! It's been too long since I've updated this... over a year. Let's recap 2009:
1. I was married and am not on the path to being divorced. Not to get super detailed (and to protect the other party involved), she decided she was too young to be a wife and would rather hook up with random guys from the Internet and neglect her responsibilities to our household (work, clean, spend time with me, etc.). I did try to make the marriage work; I overlooked a lot of things that others would not have for the sake of re-establishing and saving my relationship. Although I am sad that the marriage is over, I'm in a much happier place now- even if my soon-to-be ex-wife is spreading lies about me and refusing to repay her debts to me from when we were separated but still under the same roof. I hope karma is real...
2. I'm in a new relationship. My girlfriend is amazing; she better be since I have been chasing her since we met in September 2007. She was with someone else at the time and so was I. We became very good friends and then we fell apart after she moved away and disappeared. However, she came back into my life when my marriage was falling apart for good last summer. The rest is history.
3. On 20 July 2009, I had top surgery in Cleveland with Daniel Medalie. Definitely one of the best days of my life so far. I experienced very little pain and discomfort, much less than I thought I would, and am very happy with the results.
More later... Law and Order: Special Victims Unit is distracting me
i've been thinking more and mor about transitioning. i want top surgery as soon as i can afford it, but that seems to be miles and miles away. i wish i could just close my eyes and open them to find a pile of cash, waiting to be used to help me get rid of these breasts. i've been trying to think of something else, but it keeps coming up at least once a day. i'm going to be working out again in order to get back into shape and get my mind off this stuff. hopefully it works. in the meantime, i will be going to some rush events for a fraternity i am intereste4d in and will be working on school work, extracurricular activities, and fundraising for surgery.